Message To All COYR Forum Readers
#85
(08-01-2020, 01:43 PM)Sniffer Dog Wrote: I would just like to say that the forum is going great and I am delighted with all you posters and contributions that you make.

The problem with me is that I am never satisfied and I always want more and I have a burning desire for this forum to be the best. I am ambitious and I have drive. I won't ever stop. It's just how I am. Always have been and always will be.

Now stop bloody reading and get posting. Tik tok tik tok...


The eternal battle.  Incentive?  Discipline? (Or have psychological irk from being forced to do things in life that you aren't comfortable with. Do people like being forced..? 'Do this or else we'll freeze your assets?' Especially with their valuable free time?

Horses led to water.  But can you make them drink..?  The internet is largely a passive medium despite the vocal minority on forums, youtube or insta-facebook. We like to read or watch. ;)

You're invited to a wedding and somebody says, 'Dance.'  (maybe you like to watch people enjoy themselves and soak up the atmosphere but you're not much of a dancer...)

Or there's a singalong and people in the group shout at you, 'SING!' (and you love other people singing but hate singing yourself?)

Or yes, the 'loud' one in the group single out the quiet one as 'weird.'

1000 members.  That's the Forest tribe (maybe you have more...) currently here.  Let's say 1 in 10 post.

To double the amount of posters?  Grow the passive tribe to 2000 to double the 'active' posters.

People are probably rebels at heart.  You tell them to do something and in my experience they'll either resent you or not do it.

Life gets in the way and you end up frozen out.  That wouldn't encourage me.

Sometimes people just don't 'feel like it.'


There's nothing wrong with a burning desire to make something better.

But we have to be careful.  eg.  Many of the websites these days?  'We respect your privacy....' (BUT!  To read this website you'll have to surrender it...  Naturally, those websites I leave.)

Encouragement works better.  And there's countless ways to encourage people.  In the 1st instance to merely be a welcoming, superior Forest fan forum with superior standards of civil discussion and passion for Forest.  It's worked well so far..?

SA.
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#86
(02-01-2020, 04:36 PM)Tricky Wrote:
(02-01-2020, 04:11 PM)WrexhamRed Wrote: I know it's probably not intentional but this all just comes across a bit like when the loud one in the group targets the quiet one & turns everyone against them cos they're 'weird' & they get kicked out of the group.

I get you are just trying to get people to join in but I'm not sure threatening to boot them out of the group if they don't is the best course of action.
Having said that I don't know what is so maybe you're right. It just doesn't sit right with me & doesn't feel like it's in the same benevolent spirit that this website is so proud of.

I kind of agree with Wrexham on this one.

Being abusive or causing problems with other posters is a kicking out offence, not not participating!

There are times when I don't really have anything to say or sometimes I dont feel like typing, but I enjoy reading what others put. I would sooner read a post that is sensible, makes a point, has some thought behind it, amusing maybe or a potential piece of 'news'. I dont want to read any old crap, just so posters can keep their membership, which is what could happen and if that does happen, the forum could potentially lose some of its better posters for that very reason. I'm not saying it will, just what could happen.

There! I've said my bit, so hopefully, I'm good for a few more weeks  :P

SA.
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#87
(08-01-2020, 04:33 PM)Jasper Scarrott Wrote:
(08-01-2020, 01:43 PM)Sniffer Dog Wrote: I would just like to say that the forum is going great and I am delighted with all you posters and contributions that you make.

The problem with me is that I am never satisfied and I always want more and I have a burning desire for this forum to be the best. I am ambitious and I have drive. I won't ever stop. It's just how I am. Always have been and always will be.

Now stop bloody reading and get posting. Tik tok tik tok...

Are you available go give an inspirational talk in the changing room to the players Sniff?

If this forum wants more contributors.  It needs to increase it's body count.  And yes, inspirational is the word.

Inspiration brought the forum into being.  Inspiration has kept it running well.  To keep growing..?

...it just needs more inspiration.

SA.
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#88
(08-01-2020, 01:43 PM)Sniffer Dog Wrote: I would just like to say that the forum is going great and I am delighted with all you posters and contributions that you make.

The problem with me is that I am never satisfied and I always want more and I have a burning desire for this forum to be the best. I am ambitious and I have drive. I won't ever stop. It's just how I am. Always have been and always will be.

Now stop bloody reading and get posting. Tik tok tik tok...

Typical stubborn Bulwellian   :P
"It's Tricky to rock a rhyme, to rock a rhyme that's right on time, it's Trickay, It's Tricky, Tricky, Tricky Tricky" - Run DMC
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#89
I see we have now become registered members only.

I like that. It's like our own private Forest community.
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#90
(13-01-2020, 02:18 PM)Alf Garnett Wrote: I see we have now become registered members only.

I like that. It's like our own private Forest community.

Well spotted Alfred.

Work has started...
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#91
Love this forum guys best one out there keep up the great work
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#92
(13-01-2020, 02:48 PM)tugger2018 Wrote: Love this forum guys best one out there keep up the great work

Cheers tugger and thanks for responding to my call for more readers to start posting.
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#93
(15-01-2020, 10:51 AM)Ouzo Power Wrote: Just seen this thread as I was very very busy recently.

I don't want to get excluded so I am going to post more now that i have more time.

+1.
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#94
Hi peeps, I have no inside knowledge of any sort, also have no deep opinions except I love Forest, but I do love reading about various rumours floating about the interwebs and other peoples views, so I hope you will let me stalk this group longer x x ?
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#95
(15-01-2020, 01:02 PM)DragonLady Wrote: Hi peeps, I have no inside knowledge of any sort, also have no deep opinions except I love Forest, but I do love reading about various rumours floating about the interwebs and other peoples views, so I hope you will let me stalk this group longer x x ?

You can always make a contribution in The Ale House DragonLady.

I am sure you can find something there.
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#96
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